Saturday, February 26, 2011

Icebreakers

Do you get really shy when you talk to a guy you like let alone guys in general? You want him to make the first move. That doesen't always work. Sometimes you have to be the one to break the ice.
Make eye contact. That is key number one. If the guy looks back then you could move to the next step.
The next step once you made eye contact is to smile. If the guy smiles then you could keep the fliration going. If he doesen't smile then it would be best to say that he is just not intrested. Or he could be a very moody person.
The third step is to make conversation. A best line is "Did you go to wherever high school? You look like someone I went to high school with." If the guy says yes then start a conversation about high school. What sports did he play? How was college? If a guy answers one word or doesen't pay attention then it's time to move on. If he pays attention or keeps the conversation going then you should be happy. The more he talks to you the more it means he is in to you. Even if you just met you could start to be friends and build onto that. You never know what could happen in the future.
Last relax. You could make a few jokes if you want. Once you feel things are going okay then you have nothing to worry about.
So here are ways to break the ice with someone you like. There are many other ways. This you could do without feeling too foward. Always have confidence. No matter how good looking the guy is never feel that you aren't good enough. Never let anyone make you feel that you don't derserve to be with the person you want.