mixed signals part 2

Last I told you about the time when I had a mixed signals with someone. I didn't tell you what happened after that. It was the day after the dance on the cruise. I was still in Boston and it was the day I was leaving with my class. We all checked out of the hotel and later went to an aquarium. It reminded me of the saying "There are other fish in the sea." Me and that guy would just be friends. I mean I know that I didn't know him that well but when we face rejection as hard as it is we must remember "There are other fish in the sea." It's a phrase that has been said many times. We get down on ourselves when we are rejected weather it's unrequitted love or a break-up. We must remember that phrase. We must look at this person who we had our heart set on and know that just like we met this person we will also meet someone else. So today when you are upset about the person who isn't paying attention to you or doesen't see you as more than a friend remember that there are other fish in the sea. When you least expect it that fish is waiting to be catched.

mixed signals

Have you ever didn't consider a guy who liked you your type then one day all of a sudden you felt differently? I think that it has happened to all of us at one time or another. Mine started when I was very young. When you are young you don't really know what love is but you have a crush on someone and that someone may or may not like you back. There was this guy in my class who was cute and nice but for some reason I didn't like him. My classmates kept saying that he liked me but I said hi and bye to him. Then a year later at a dance he asked me to dance I said to myself A dance doesen't mean anything. Than when the night was over I was so happy. We didn't date or anything but for some reason I think I developed a crush on him. Then when I went away on a class trip and we went on a cruise I thought I would dance with him but the whole night he was dancing with some other girl. I was crushed. Other guys asked me to dance but I said no because it wasn't him. We sometimes wonder when we get hurt with love, is it out there for us? How come other people have luck and the good girls don't? We shouldn't base our future decisions on decisions from the past. Unrequitted love happens and then real love happens. We must remain positive because not all of our realtionships are failures. Just because we got mixed signals with one person just means that that person is not the one for us. We don't know who we are supposed to be with or when we will meet him but everything will fall into place. We just have to believe that love is out there and when we are not looking it will eventually come.

meeting people

Meeting people when you are out of college is very hard to do. It's hard to make new friends because everyone already has their groups. It is something we all must do.

We shouldn't be nervous when meeting new people. We should find the good qualities that attract people to us and apply them to the world.

The first thing is what most of us found out "The Law of Attraction." You have probally heard of it if you ever read or saw "The Secret." Like attracts like so we must focus on positive things.

The second thing is we must learn to accept ourselves fault and all. We can't expect others to find the good in us if we don't find it in ourselves first.

That is my advice for today and good luck for those who want to meet new people.