Hello and Welcome to another edition of Social Life. Today I am going to be discussing something that some of us could relate to. What happens when we want someone who doesen't want us back?
For a long time I wanted someone but they didn't treat me as I should be treated. I would like him and be upset because he is ignoring me, go away and then when I would come back I wouldn't care. It's been a cycle. When I'm in the same proximity as him I want him but when I'm away from him I'm okay. He's cute and funny. My friends say that I shouldn't be with someone who doesen't accept me and I know that's true. I am around other guys who treat me better and I know that I don't deserve to be treated the way he does to me.
So today when you like someone make sure that they like you for who you are. You could be a supermodel or the homecomming queen but if they don't get impressed or don't pay attention then they don't derserve you. The things that you are impressing them with, one day someone else will be impressed and more importantly they will like you for who you are.
As hard as it is be yourself but first be friends with yourself. As much as this has been said you have to love you in order for someone else to love you.
Later,
Paige
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Always Tell People How You Feel
Hello and welcome back to another edition of "Social Life." Tonight I am going to talk about the "What Could have been," and "The one that got away."
9 Years ago I met a guy at a party. At first I didn't like him but I talked to him and he liked me. he thought that since I was a year older I wouldn't be intrested in him. I wasn't at the time but the more that I talked to him, the more I fell for him. I was ready to tell him how I felt but all I said was "Nice Meeting you, bye."
I regreted it more than anything and after wishing to see him again I finally told him the truth. He said that if he was single he would go out with me. He said he had a girlfriend but couldn't stop thinking of me.
For a long time he was "The one who got away." I recently got back in touch with him and I realized that he wasn't the guy who I thought he was.
That experience taught me that you should always tell people how you feel because you may never get a second chance. Then they will never know how you feel and you will always wonder what could have been.
So today take chances. Put your heart on the line and if it doesen't work out then you know it wasn't meant to be and you could move on. It's much better that knowing you had a chance but didn't take it and wondering for years "what could have been."
C ya next time,
Paige
9 Years ago I met a guy at a party. At first I didn't like him but I talked to him and he liked me. he thought that since I was a year older I wouldn't be intrested in him. I wasn't at the time but the more that I talked to him, the more I fell for him. I was ready to tell him how I felt but all I said was "Nice Meeting you, bye."
I regreted it more than anything and after wishing to see him again I finally told him the truth. He said that if he was single he would go out with me. He said he had a girlfriend but couldn't stop thinking of me.
For a long time he was "The one who got away." I recently got back in touch with him and I realized that he wasn't the guy who I thought he was.
That experience taught me that you should always tell people how you feel because you may never get a second chance. Then they will never know how you feel and you will always wonder what could have been.
So today take chances. Put your heart on the line and if it doesen't work out then you know it wasn't meant to be and you could move on. It's much better that knowing you had a chance but didn't take it and wondering for years "what could have been."
C ya next time,
Paige
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Honesty is the Best Policy
Hey everyone,
I bet you missed me last week huh? Well for your info I was away on vacay in the lovely AC. While I was there things happen that usually don't happen. I hate to be a downer and everything but I went clubbing and actually met a couple of guys. Some weren't that great but there was one special person.
Alot of times people say that when you go to bars and clubs you shouldn't give info for safety reasons and not date people that you meet there. Everytime I went out I would give fake info since people told me about the guys at bars and clubs. I never really cared until last Friday.
I was at a pool party with my friends and spotted this cute guy with his friends. I danced my way over there and one of his friends introduced him to me. Me and him started talking and dancing. When he asked for my name I lied even though I liked him. Later on he asked if I was from around there and I lied and said I live in CA (Which I don't). As time went on I saw how nice he was and how we had stuff in common. He seemed to like me but probally thought that it wouldn't work because I live far away. He kept asking me about CA andI answered since I go there alot and hope to live there one day. I felt guilty for lying and it wasn't until he was gone did I realize that I wanted to get to know him.
I believe in fate and that everything happens for a reason. So I am going to try my best to let fate take it's course and hope to meet him again one day. When I do I will tell him everything. I know I met him for a reason.
When you meet someone today be on guard, don't give out to much info but take chances. Be honest when that someone you like comes to talk to you and always tell people how you feel because you may never get a second chance and then will always wonder what could have been.
Until next time,
Paige
I bet you missed me last week huh? Well for your info I was away on vacay in the lovely AC. While I was there things happen that usually don't happen. I hate to be a downer and everything but I went clubbing and actually met a couple of guys. Some weren't that great but there was one special person.
Alot of times people say that when you go to bars and clubs you shouldn't give info for safety reasons and not date people that you meet there. Everytime I went out I would give fake info since people told me about the guys at bars and clubs. I never really cared until last Friday.
I was at a pool party with my friends and spotted this cute guy with his friends. I danced my way over there and one of his friends introduced him to me. Me and him started talking and dancing. When he asked for my name I lied even though I liked him. Later on he asked if I was from around there and I lied and said I live in CA (Which I don't). As time went on I saw how nice he was and how we had stuff in common. He seemed to like me but probally thought that it wouldn't work because I live far away. He kept asking me about CA andI answered since I go there alot and hope to live there one day. I felt guilty for lying and it wasn't until he was gone did I realize that I wanted to get to know him.
I believe in fate and that everything happens for a reason. So I am going to try my best to let fate take it's course and hope to meet him again one day. When I do I will tell him everything. I know I met him for a reason.
When you meet someone today be on guard, don't give out to much info but take chances. Be honest when that someone you like comes to talk to you and always tell people how you feel because you may never get a second chance and then will always wonder what could have been.
Until next time,
Paige
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Everything Happens For a Reason
Hey, I'm back and tonight I think we could all relate to this topic. You have heard of the saying Everything happens for a reason right? Well I believe it does.
I heard it when I was younger and as I got older I experienced it more and more. The first time that I felt I truley exxperienced it was when I was in 8th grade. My best friend is older than me and she happens to do my hair. She used to do my mom's hair.
She was supposed to do me and my mom's hair the day before graduation. I was at the mall that day since I had a final and knew she was comming later. I thought that I would be home in time but I wasn't. She did my mom's hair and to my suprise even better she did my hair the day of graduation and even came to my graduation. We then all went to the diner afterwards.
It's so funny when little things like that happen. Your in a rush because you have to be somewhere but then something better comes along.
When things don't go your way today and for the future don't worry even though it's tempting. Just relax and know that it is all about God's plan. Everything happens for a reason.
See you next time,
Paige
I heard it when I was younger and as I got older I experienced it more and more. The first time that I felt I truley exxperienced it was when I was in 8th grade. My best friend is older than me and she happens to do my hair. She used to do my mom's hair.
She was supposed to do me and my mom's hair the day before graduation. I was at the mall that day since I had a final and knew she was comming later. I thought that I would be home in time but I wasn't. She did my mom's hair and to my suprise even better she did my hair the day of graduation and even came to my graduation. We then all went to the diner afterwards.
It's so funny when little things like that happen. Your in a rush because you have to be somewhere but then something better comes along.
When things don't go your way today and for the future don't worry even though it's tempting. Just relax and know that it is all about God's plan. Everything happens for a reason.
See you next time,
Paige
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I work so hard and I get nothing
Hello Readers,
Are you or were you ever the type of person who works so hard and feels like you are not getting anywhere? Today I am going to discuss the workaholics who never really seem to catch a
break.
I remember when I was in 8th grade. I showed my writing to one of the faculty staff who just happened to be in charge of the school paper. She said my writing was excellent and since I loved to write that I should join the paper. (This was at the end of the year). Well, I gave her my work and she said she would put it in. When the school paper came out my work was never even in it. I remember how I put all of that work and nothing came out of it.
It also happened other times. I don't want you to think that I am not a good writer because I am. I just don't understand how people could say to write about something and then when you do it's not even in the paper.
In high school when I joined the paper it was the same thing so I dropped out. In college my work was getting put in all of the time. Until we had a new advisor. She made the meetings long and wanted you to interview people on campus. I know journalism is all about expanding your horizions and interviewing people. I am fine with that it's just that I did movie reviews or opinion articles. Even if I wrote movie reviews I had to get sources. My other friend also complained about it. I told her my ideas and wrote the article. She said it was excellent and when I got the paper my article wasn't in it. So I once again quit.
I don't want you to get the wrong idea to quit everytime you hit a rock. When you want something very bad you shouldn't quit.
I know how it feels to put your heart into something that you really want and in the end you feel that it was all for nothing. It hurts and it could be fustrating. No matter how bad it gets don't give up.
I am still writing to this day and hoping to get my works published one day. I may not be a best seller yet but I know that I am good and creative. Writing is also something that I love to do. I love to write all different genres of writing.
When you get bad critiques don't give up. It doesen't mean that you are never going to fuffill your dreams. It just means that you need improvement. Even the best actresses and writers were told at one point that they weren't going to make it. Then later on they became a hit and to this day are famous.
So whatever you love go for it. Just because one person doesen't think that you are good doesen't mean that your a failure. Keep working at what you love to do. The more you work at it the better you will become. Just when you least expect it, your dreams will finally come true. So keep believing and working.
Until next time,
Paige
Are you or were you ever the type of person who works so hard and feels like you are not getting anywhere? Today I am going to discuss the workaholics who never really seem to catch a
break.
I remember when I was in 8th grade. I showed my writing to one of the faculty staff who just happened to be in charge of the school paper. She said my writing was excellent and since I loved to write that I should join the paper. (This was at the end of the year). Well, I gave her my work and she said she would put it in. When the school paper came out my work was never even in it. I remember how I put all of that work and nothing came out of it.
It also happened other times. I don't want you to think that I am not a good writer because I am. I just don't understand how people could say to write about something and then when you do it's not even in the paper.
In high school when I joined the paper it was the same thing so I dropped out. In college my work was getting put in all of the time. Until we had a new advisor. She made the meetings long and wanted you to interview people on campus. I know journalism is all about expanding your horizions and interviewing people. I am fine with that it's just that I did movie reviews or opinion articles. Even if I wrote movie reviews I had to get sources. My other friend also complained about it. I told her my ideas and wrote the article. She said it was excellent and when I got the paper my article wasn't in it. So I once again quit.
I don't want you to get the wrong idea to quit everytime you hit a rock. When you want something very bad you shouldn't quit.
I know how it feels to put your heart into something that you really want and in the end you feel that it was all for nothing. It hurts and it could be fustrating. No matter how bad it gets don't give up.
I am still writing to this day and hoping to get my works published one day. I may not be a best seller yet but I know that I am good and creative. Writing is also something that I love to do. I love to write all different genres of writing.
When you get bad critiques don't give up. It doesen't mean that you are never going to fuffill your dreams. It just means that you need improvement. Even the best actresses and writers were told at one point that they weren't going to make it. Then later on they became a hit and to this day are famous.
So whatever you love go for it. Just because one person doesen't think that you are good doesen't mean that your a failure. Keep working at what you love to do. The more you work at it the better you will become. Just when you least expect it, your dreams will finally come true. So keep believing and working.
Until next time,
Paige
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Party Ruiners
Hello and welcome to another edition of "Social Life." Tonight I am going to mention what to do when people ruin your party.
I rmember when it was my 14th birthday. I was so excited I had the whole thing planned out. I was having a party and two of my best friends would sleep over and the next day we were going to see "Pearl Harbor." It didn't quite work out that way.
My two closest friends couldn't sleep over but they came and my other friends did. I also invited two girls who I were aquitances with. This one girl was very bossy and was ruining the whole thing. To make it worse I found her reading my diary and quoting it. I couldn't belive it. Then they locked me in the closet as a joke. That night I was so upset it was the worst party I have ever had.
In a situation like that there is nothing you can really do. You just know for the future who to invite and who not to invite. I also learned that when it comes to having a party and having everythign planned out, know who you are going to invited. Don't just invited someone who you have an after school activity with and say hi and bye too. Another thing, if someone hurt you in the past or was bossy to you in the past they will be the same way in the future. A leopard will not change it's spots.
My next birthday was amazing. I didn't invited the girls who ruined my party and even my crush came.
Later on I had parties that I loved and some didn't turn out as I hoped. They were each different and that's how life is. Things change and sometimes things we think will be great may not be and things we think will be horrible turn out to be the best. We shouldn't judge our future experiences based on the past ones. We should be cautious but we also should move foward and believe that everythign is going to be okay.
See you next time,
Paige
I rmember when it was my 14th birthday. I was so excited I had the whole thing planned out. I was having a party and two of my best friends would sleep over and the next day we were going to see "Pearl Harbor." It didn't quite work out that way.
My two closest friends couldn't sleep over but they came and my other friends did. I also invited two girls who I were aquitances with. This one girl was very bossy and was ruining the whole thing. To make it worse I found her reading my diary and quoting it. I couldn't belive it. Then they locked me in the closet as a joke. That night I was so upset it was the worst party I have ever had.
In a situation like that there is nothing you can really do. You just know for the future who to invite and who not to invite. I also learned that when it comes to having a party and having everythign planned out, know who you are going to invited. Don't just invited someone who you have an after school activity with and say hi and bye too. Another thing, if someone hurt you in the past or was bossy to you in the past they will be the same way in the future. A leopard will not change it's spots.
My next birthday was amazing. I didn't invited the girls who ruined my party and even my crush came.
Later on I had parties that I loved and some didn't turn out as I hoped. They were each different and that's how life is. Things change and sometimes things we think will be great may not be and things we think will be horrible turn out to be the best. We shouldn't judge our future experiences based on the past ones. We should be cautious but we also should move foward and believe that everythign is going to be okay.
See you next time,
Paige
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Are they thinking of me?
Are you the type of person that shuts people out? Not because you want to but because you had bad experiences? Tonight I am going to discuss what happens when you are thinking of someone and they aren't thinking about you. When I was young and met people I always believed that we would be close and was optomistic about having friends. Even when it comes to realationships. alot of the time the people that I think are great are the ones who end up hurting me. The people that I don't want to associate with are the people who want to be with me. Does it make sense? No. I am not here to talk about making sense. Instead I am ready to discuss how it feels. It dosen't feel good when we are excited to see someone but they aren't excited to see us. We wonder how come they don't care about us? As much as we are dissapointed we should give others a chance and believe that one day there will be that one person who is excited to see us and wants to give us a chance. The people who won't give us a chance, well then it is their loss. We shouldn't shut ourselves off because we had bad experiences in the past. We should leave the past in the past and press on to the greater achivements of the future. See you next time, Paige
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